I WISH I KNEW THAT BACK THEN…
Originally Published the Week of Mar. 2, 2024 in Western Outdoor Publications
Hindsight is a wonderful thing. Looking in the rear-view mirror of life and all the things you’ve done and places you’ve been gives you great perspective.
Certainly, after some 3 decades living in Mexico, I would have done some things differently before making the big move. Or, at least, I would have been better prepared.
Some samples…
DRIVING in Mexico is not like anywhere else I had ever been.
In the U.S. we are used to making it from Point A to Point B in “x amount of minutes” or x-amount of miles. “
In Mexico, it’s not like blazing down a U.S. freeway or even a regular road. Especially back then, the concept of “paved” road may or may not mean it has blacktop, potholes, gravel or cows sleeping on it.
A road map could sometimes be merely a “guideline” on the route. Be prepared for detours from washouts, landslides or construction.
Definitely, you learn early on, don’t drive at night.
Also, you might be the most careful and conscientious driver on the road, but don’t count on Mexican drivers to be the same.
Let me put it this way. Everyone drives. Not everyone has a license to drive!
And, even if they had a license, there’s no “Driver’s Ed” class. Just be ultra careful.
Also, just because YOU have auto insurance which you are required to have, if most folks don’t have driver’s licenses, don’t count on anyone to have insurance either! If you crash, it’s probably you that will end up paying.
THINGS JUST TAKE LONGER than anywhere else.
Speaking of course in generalities, but…
Folks move slower. We joke about “manana” but get used to it. Very little happens “on time.” Things don’t get done “on time.”
No one arrives “on time” (except you!). Very few show up to work “on time.”
The system moves slower.
That means everything from mail…deliveries…repairmen…banking…processing paperwork…getting your bills (although they DO make you pay them on time!).
“Fast food?” Don’t count on it.
Express lane in the market? There’s 20 people in front of you.
TAKING THINGS FOR GRANTED
We’re spoiled north of the border. We just assume so many aspects of life are a “given.”
Unless there’s something like a storm, we always have ELECTRICITY.
Not so in Mexico. Sometimes, stuff just goes out. Plays havoc with your electronics or trying to do work!
PHONE service. Again, this could be hit-or-miss. It’s getting better as technology expands, but in many places, it’s still difficult to rely on regular signals. Many times, once you move away from a population center, don’t count on it.
WATER…yup as basic as water.
If you’ve ever seen the big plastic cisterns on everyone’s roofs in Mexico, that’s where everyone stores water. Water is not provided every day in many places.
Some folks get no water at all. Think about that.
Folks forget Mexico is a very arid place. And like many places in the U.S. where water is scarce…everyone seems to be moving there or building more houses and businesses. (And golf courses.)
The demand for water goes higher!
Where we live in La Paz we only get water service 2 or 3 times per week. It comes from a small pipe and it’s only turned on for anywhere from 1-3 hours. So you store every bit that you can!
If water doesn’t arrive or isn’t turned on or you run out, you have to go out and buy it.
At our restaurant, it’s pretty hard to run an eatery without water so we have three giant 1100 liter cisterns (tinacas) on our roof. When we run out or they don’t turn on the water, we have to hire a truck to bring water from the mountains to fill us up.
BASIC STUFF is another thing. In the U.S. if you need something a light bulb…Kleenex…toilet paper…batteries…you run to Walgreens or Target or Walmart near you. The corner convenience store has most essentials.
You might have to go to several stores to find one single thing or purchase everything on your shopping list. It’s getting way better than when I first arrived in Mexico. But, it can still be a bit frustrating.
This is all in generalities of course!
All this being said, it really just takes a bit of getting used to. It takes a bit of adjustment. It’s not bad per se. It’s just different.
Like many things in life, there are few actual crisis and just lots of “inconveniences.” Keep that in mind and go with the flow, and it’s still a great place to be.
That’s my story!
Jonthan
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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife and fishing buddy, Jilly, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter.com.
They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is: jonathan@tailhunter.com
Or drop by the restaurant to say hi. It’s right on the La Paz waterfront!
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