THINGS I WOULD HAVE TOLD MYSELF

November 1, 2020 by riplipboy

On the beach in 1996. I had no idea this would turn into a new career.

Originally Published the Week of Oct. 27, 2020 in Western Outdoor Publications

Almost 3 decades down here in Baja now. I’m not sure I’m “older and wiser” now. Definitely older.

But I was thinking of things I would have (should have?) told my younger-self back then when I first moved down here that would have made things so much more enlightening and surely easier.

For one, coming from the life of a litigation attorney to a remote part of Baja, I would have told myself to SLOW-THE-HECK-DOWN! It took a long time to get off the clock.

It took a long time to realize that just because I was running fast, no one was going to run faster to keep up with me and what I wanted or needed. I would have to adjust and take it down a few notches.

Actually I had to take it way way way down!

Related to that first thing…not that I had a lot of money…but money doesn’t necessarily make things go faster either. Things will happen when they happen.

I definitely would have told myself not to be so gullible.

“Si” (Yes) does not always mean “yes.” “No” doesn’t always mean “no.”

Folks aren’t necessarily lying to you. It means what it means at the time it is said. It is ALWAYS subject to “re-interpretation” later by the person who said that to me in the first place.

So, flexibility, patience and adaptability are good to keep close-at-hand.

Again, not that I had a lot of money. But, I would have told myself there is no such thing as a loan.

The person may ask for a “loan.” But, honestly, they really probably needed the money more than I did. They may call it a “loan.” They may promise to pay it back.

But, in 25 years, I have only had one person ever pay me back. And it was 4 years later!

A “loan” is really a “gift.” Don’t loan money or anything else you can’t afford to lose.

I would tell myself never drive off without these things in the car:

Jumper cables
Duct tape and electrical tape
20 bucks in small bills or pesos hidden somewhere in the car for an emergency
A spare tire
Toilet paper and a shovel

I would have also told myself not to have been so terrified the first time I drove down the Baja Peninsula. I had read too many stories. Now that I’ve driven it dozens of times, it’s a wonderful drive that only gets better.

To, my list of things, I would have mentioned, that truly “less is more.”

I brought down way too much stuff that 3 decades later, I am still burdened with. Did I really need over 100 rods and reels? Did I really need 200 pounds of tackle? Did I really need two trailers full of other odds-and-ends?

Along those same lines, I would have told myself that it’s possible to get by with very little and on very little. I would learn to adapt. I sure learned now to stretch a peso!

I would learn to fix things. I would learn that it’s easier to fix something or make do than to run around all day trying to find a replacement. Or maybe, I was just too lazy.

I would have smacked myself and told my younger-self to not be so nervous about eating local food. Oh sure, everyone loves tacos. But, real Mexican food is NOT like in the U.S. Eat what everyone eats. Eat where everyone eats.

I would have advised myself that getting excited about “living off the grid” is not “living off the grid” like the reality-show people on TV. Real reality is completely different.

I would wake up in the morning with food the first thing on my mind. Not because I wanted to eat. It was because I would have to figure out HOW to get food each day. Catch it? Trade for it? Find it? Pull it from the ground or ocean?

No grocery stores. No restaurants where I lived.

Living off the grid required some serious thought. There’s no safety net.

Digging a well just to have drinking water. Hooking up marine batteries to make one light bulb work.

Treating ice like gold because that was the only way to keep my food. No frig. Only an ice chest in 100-degree heat.

Hoping to catch a fish for dinner because that’s all there was. Hoping some desert critter didn’t eat my tomato plant required critical thinking and planning.

I had never imagined those things when I moved down.

I would tell myself that there is nothing you cannot trade for. When money is scarce, barter works just as well. Trade tomatoes for meat. Fish for writing paper. Cigarettes for beer. Old t-shirts for tortillas.

I would have told myself that I would meet some of the best friends in my life and come to appreciate and love a people and culture like no other.

I would never have figured that I’d also meet my awesome wife and two great kids. That was not part of the plan. (Not sure I would have told myself that…maybe romance is best left as a surprise!)

Mostly, I think I would have told myself that it was going to be the adventure of a lifetime. It was going to be an incredible experience. It was going to be the best thing I had ever done and something most people would never experience.

I would have reminded myself that it’s better to try something than have regrets later on.

Lastly, I would have told myself there was no language barrier that a smile could not overcome.

I would have told myself that everything was going to be just fine .

That’s my story!

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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife and fishing buddy, Jilly, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter.com.

They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is: jonathan@tailhunter.com

Or drop by the restaurant to say hi. It’s right on the La Paz waterfront!

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Tailhunter International

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