GOOD ENUFF
Originally Published the Week of Jan. 16, 2019 in Western Outdoor Publications
In addition to our fishing fleet, we have a little bar and restaurant in La Paz where lots of our fishermen trade stories; watch sports; and have a few cold ones. Most will tell you it’s a fun little place.
We also have live music a few nights a week. Our guys are pretty good. But anyone is welcome to join in.
If you think you can strum a guitar; carry a tune or bang two tin cups together, step on up. Put your beer down or bring it with you.
I guarantee, alone or with the band no matter. We love it. The band loves it. The crowd loves it. You’ll love it.
Enthusiasm counts for a lot more than talent, skill or ability.
I’ve played guitar for years. I’ve played in bands. I’ve been in front of crowds. But, by my own standards, I’m a hack. I get by if I have to.
But, I was hesitant to play with our guys at first. I don’t know why, but I didn’t think I was good enough.
It was the leader of our house band who finally said, “Are you good enough to have fun? If the answer is ‘yes’ then come on up to the stage.”
And that kinda did it. I’m not as good as these guys, but I’m good enough to play WITH these guys and I have a world of fun. And they have fun with me on stage and the crowd seems to enjoy it too.
For some reason, I got two e-mails this week from two different dads. In both cases, they wanted to come fish with us in La Paz.
One wanted to bring his young son.
Another was going to bring a son and an older daughter, but not his youngest daughter.
I also got a phone call from guy who had never fished in salt water, but was hesitant.
In all three situations, “not good enough” was mentioned.
I had to think about that for a moment before responding to each situation.
I rarely hear that someone “isn’t good enough.” Not about fishing. How good do you have to be?
No matter how much someone tries to make of it, I’ll tell ya a secret. In almost 5 decades of fishing, it’s NOT rocket science. Fishing is not curing cancer. Fishing is not winning the Nobel Peace Prize.
We often forget that.
And for some reason, I remembered about my guitar playing. I only have to be good enough to have fun. That’s all. Have a good time.
I asked each father if their kids enjoyed the outdoors? Did the kids like fishing at all? Do they have fun? Did the fathers have fun with their kids?
Both answered in the affirmative.
I put the same question to the freshwater guy that was nervous about saltwater fishing. He didn’t want to look foolish or under-gunned if he came to fish with us.
“Well, do you have fun fishing?”
“Yes, I love it!”
Well, what’s stopping you? Step on up. If it’s a kid, they’ll never get good at all if you don’t start ‘em somewhere. Same with the freshwater guy.
If you’re good enough to have fun, you’re good enough. That’s all you need to know.
You don’t need to be stronger or bigger. You don’t need to have all the best equipment. You don’t need more experience. That will come.
I’m in my 60’s now. I have a new first grandson myself. He’s not even two-years-old yet but we’ve already taken him fishing.
Some would say he’s not old enough.
Heck, he’s not even potti-trained yet! That will come, right?
But, he had fun so that means he’s already “good enough” and I can’t wait to take him again. Or the younger sister that just got born two months ago.
We’ll have her on the water in good time and I have no doubts she’ll have fun.
I won’t be around to see either of them fishing when they’re 60. But, I hope they remember their grandpa taking them out.
Time is precious. Moments are precious. Get those kids out. Get yourself out. Tomorrow is already here.
You’re good enough. Jump up. Jump in. The water is fine!
That’s my story!
Jonathan
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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife and fishing buddy, Jilly, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter.com.
They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is: jonathan@tailhunter.com
Or drop by the restaurant to say hi. It’s right on the La Paz waterfront!
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Tailhunter International
Website:
www.tailhunter-international.com
Mexico Office: Tailhunter International, 755 Paseo Obregon, La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico
U.S. Mailing Address: Tailhunter International, 8030 La Mesa Blvd. #178, La Mesa CA 91942
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