“MEET MY NEW FISHING BUDDY!”
Originally Published the Week of September 6, 2013 in Western Outdoor News
We always try to make a point of personally greeting each and every fishing clients who comes to visit us when they come from the airport. After so many e-mails and phone calls prior to the trip, it’s great to finally put faces and names together…for all of us…clients included.
Several weeks ago, we were waiting at the hotel for two sets of brothers. Bob and Pat Brown and John and Terry Terrell were coming fishing together. Super.
But, what a surprise when they stepped out of the airport van to greet us. “Pat” turned out to be “Patricia” and “Terry” was “Teresa!” Two couples!
After a laugh and some quick scrambling to re-arrange their hotel rooms to get king beds, I had some thoughts. Several days before, half our fleet of pangas was occupied by couples. Even one of my long-time captains commented about it.
As I sit here and write this, I would say 40 percent of our clients fishing with us this very moment are women…that includes several wives…two sets of sisters…a daughter-in-law…and two single gals getting away from their guys for a quick fishing trip (tables turned!)
And this is panga fishing! That means no big shiny cruisers. It’s an open boat pushed off the beach old-school style!
Times are changing.
Fishing and Mexico aren’t just a guy’s domain anymore. But, with increasing frequency, we’re seeing an increasing number of couples and women in general. I attribute it to three things.
First, I think the ladies themselves have changed. They are much more outgoing. They’re used to travel. They’re used to a little adventure. They’re up for it. The younger ones grew up being outdoors and active. The older ones, don’t sit at home on the couch anymore either now that the kids are out-of-the-house! They’re on the move!
Many of the ladies can hang with the guys anyday and can keep up with them…and then some! They fish…they hunt…they camp…they shoot…theyswim and dive!
They can be as hardcore as the boys! Just try to elbow one trying to get to a screaming rod and you’re likely to get elbowed right back! And do NOT ask them if they need help! They’re just fine thank you!
Secondly, Mexico is changing. Facilities are better. Roads are better. Hotels are nicer. Heck…10 years ago, we were still wondering if we would have ice, let alone air-conditioning. Now there are spas and white-tablecloth restaurants. They can fish like crazy and still get a massage and pedicure in the afternoon right before pool time and happy hour. Oh…and there’s shopping. (most places!)
Also, Mexico itself is more welcoming. It’s exotically close. It’s a familiar culture, language and food. It’s easy to travel to and easy to get around. The country caters very well to visitors.
Lastly, I think us guys have changed too. We still love and need our “man-cations” with the bros, but it’s good knowing our ladies can hang with us too and frankly, from what I’m seeing we like hanging with them also.
Honestly, when I met my wife, Jilly, about 11 years ago, and found out she liked “football, fishing and beer…” Whoa! I had to buck up a bit. She was definitely worth a 2nd look and, as one of my buddies advised me, “Jonathan, she’s a keeper!”
So, I kept her…and so far she hasn’t tossed me back either! And I wouldn’t think of going fishing, camping, diving or traveling without her.
I’ve taken her rapelling on cliffs, whitewater rafting, horseback riding, paddleboarding, surfing and hiking. She’s about to get her scuba certification and she’s asked many times when we’ll have time so I can take her on a “real long range fishing trip of at least 10 days!” She’s working up to run her first 10K. She’s the one who wants to take ME to fish for peacock bass on the Amazon River and fish for catfish in SE Asia plus hiking Italy (while taking cooking schools). Amen!
I was talking to one couple that came into our restaurant after a great day of fishing. The wife just gushed and gushed about what a fun day she had and how she couldn’t wait to go out again the next day. It was the first time she had ever gone fishing. It was the first time she had been on the ocean. It was the first time she had been to Mexico.
She pulled out her camera to show me that she had caught the biggest fish of the day…even bigger than her husband’s fish! He grinned and rolled his eyes, but you could tell he was beaming as well.
I asked her how come she had never gone fishing with him before. She smiled. She said she always wanted to and quietly was always envious of all his fishing trips. She then took his hand. She looked at him and said, “It’s because he never asked me!”
Gents…it might be worth asking. Find yourself a new fishing buddy!
That’s our story!
Jonathan
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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife and fishing buddy, Jilly, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter-international.com. They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is riplipboy@tailhunter-international.com or drop by the restaurant to say hi!
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Jonathan Roldan’s
Tailhunter International
TAILHUNTER FISHING FLEET #1 Rated on Trip Advisor
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Website: www.tailhunter-international.com
U.S. Office: Box 1149, Alpine CA 91903-1149
Mexico Office: 755 Paseo Obregon, La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico
Phones:
from USA : 626-638-3383
from Mexico: 044-612-14-17863
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“FINALLY READING BETWEEN THE LINES”
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Despite what many think, Mexico actually has one of the fastest growing tourism economies in the world as more folks are discovering Mexico as a great destination with Americans still comprising the majority of tourists with more than 24 million visitors expected this year.
“FINALLY READING BETWEEN THE LINES”
Originally Published the Week of March 20, 2013 in Western Outdoor News
It’s been an uphill battle.
Turn back the time machine about 2-3 seasons ago and it seemed that every other persons was asking me about the “violence in Mexico” or telling me they’d “Never go there again” or “I’d be in fear of my life!”
It seemed everyone had seen the news clips. Everyone had read the headlines. Everyone had a friend-of-neighbor-of-an-uncle-of-a-classmate who knew someone else who had been beaten, robbed, killed or eaten a bad taco.
Speaking at seminars and appearing at countless trade, travel, hunting and fishing shows over the years, it seemed the negativity was endless. Protest as I might…how could any of us who enjoy living and working in Mexico ever overcome the omnipotent power of the broadcast and print media?
We’re just little old us…mom and pop operations in Mexico…
How does one prove a negative? How do you prove something is NOT happening? How do we go up against CNN and FOX and the others and say, “Hey, thousands of tourists are NOT getting murdered!” “Hey, 200,000 Americans crossed the border today and NOTHING happened to them!”
Sigh…wring hands…shrug shoulders. Exhale. And hope.
But maybe things are changing. Lately, people specifically ask me if Baja is safe. Or is La Paz (where we live) or Cabo San Lucas safe. Things like that.
I tell them yes. Maybe show them some statistics and they’re fine with that. “I thought so,” they’ll usually say. Then, they move onto the good stuff like, “So, when’s the best time to come fishing?”
A few years ago, people would argue with me. Not so now.
Or, in the alternative, they affirm what we’ve been telling everyone.
They come out and pointedly tell me, that they’ve visited Cancun and Cozumel and Puerta Vallarta and Loreto and other tourist destinations and found them to be safer or at least as safe as being home. And enjoy travelling to Mexico. It’s a great value. The people are great. Love the food. Blah…blah…blah! Stuff we’ve always known, right?
Now, no one is saying Mexico doesn’t have a problem. Far from it. Mexico has some serious crime problems. But folks have been quick to point out that, “Hey, it’s not directed at tourists.”
“It’s in places we shouldn’t go anyway…like back alleys of Ciudad de Juarez!”
“Don’t do things you shouldn’t be doing and going to places you shouldn’t be going and you’ll be fine…like American cities. Every place has it’s bad areas. Don’t be an idiot. Stay out of bad areas!”
“I go to Mexico all the time. I feel safer there on the beach in San Carlos or Los Barriles than I do where I live in Phoenix and my car gets busted into all the time and several of my neighbors have been burglarized.”
“I’m tired of all the negativity. It’s in the news every time an American or tourist gets his wallet stolen in Mexico. How often does that happen in downtown New York and it never makes the news.”
It’s kind of refreshing in a strange way to have people trying to convince ME that it’s OK to be in Mexico. People are figuring it out on their own.
Unlike many tourist destinations, Mexico took 3 big strikes to it’s travel sector. First, was the economic downturn that seems to have hit the whole planet.
Second, of course, is the nervousness over violent crime.
Third, was the swine-flu scare. (Don’t get me started on that fiasco! Again… everyone knew a friend-of-a-friend-of-friend who had been stricken…sheesh).
But, Mexico’s on the rebound.
I’m not completely convinced yet that it’s due to an overall economic recovery for everyone. There’s still alot of bad stuff going on and we’re far from over. But, maybe folks are just adjusting to it all. Maybe they still know Mexico’s a good value and it’s close and yea…they’ve adjusted to the fact that it’s a pretty safe place to hang out with the bro’s and the family.
Indeed, statistics show that Mexico has one of the fastest growing tourist economies in the world. In excess of 24 million visitors take to Mexico yearly now. Americans make up the majority of Mexico’s tourism base as something like 4-8 million Americans visit annually. And suffer nothing more serious than a self-induced margarita hangover or a bad sunburn.
As a matter of fact, the fastest growing segment of Mexico’s tourism is coming from places like China, Russia, Columbia, Brazil and the Ukraine. And for years, having lived in Baja, the Italians, French and Japanese have been constant visitors as well.
This is all good news for Mexico and should be an assurance to those contemplating a trip south of the border where the most violent thing you encounter might be in the salsa you spoon into your tacos! Andale!
That’s our story!
Jonathan
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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife and fishing buddy, Jilly, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter-international.com. They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is riplipboy@tailhunter-international.com or drop by the restaurant to say hi!
______________
Jonathan Roldan’s
Tailhunter International
TAILHUNTER FISHING FLEET #1 Rated on Trip Advisor
TAILHUNTER RESTAURANT BAR #1 Rated in La Paz on Trip Advisor
Now follow us on FACEBOOK TOO
Website: www.tailhunter-international.com
U.S. Office: 3319 White Cloud Drive, Suite A, Hacienda Hts. CA 91745
Mexico Office: 755 Paseo Obregon, La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico
Phones:
from USA : 626-638-3383
from Mexico: 044-612-14-17863
.
Tailhunter Weekly Fishing Report:
http://fishreport.jonathanroldan.com/
Tailhunter YouTube Videos:
http://www.youtube.com/user/pangapirate
“When your life finally flashes before your eyes, you will have only moments to regret all the things in life you never had the courage to try.”
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