“KIDS UNPLUGGED”
Originally Published in Western Outdoor News the Week of Aug. 3, 2012
What’s up with these kids? Am I the only one who’s noticed this?
Summer is on and we’ve got a lot of families arriving now for their summer vacations. All well and good. My wife and I always make a point of doing the meet-and-greet when they arrive from the airport and make sure we put faces with names and make sure they’re checked into their hotel rooms get a quick summary of things.
Big handshakes and hugs all around. It’s great to have families. And I know how important these vacations are. Not just to the families, but to mom and dad as well.
But, so many of the kids…when you reach out to shake a hand, act like they have never shaken a hand. They recoil to human touch. Smile and say hello and welcome and it’s like you’re the boogie-man.
I’ve had the parents say things to 12-year-olds like, “Say hi to Jonathan and Jill. Go on now!” And nudge them toward us like they were 4-year-olds hiding behind mom’s skirts. Heaven help them if they should smile. Never look you in the eye. And the handshakes are about as firm as quivering noodles.
After the “pleasantries” they quickly retreat into the protective shadow. Eyes downcast. What’s up with that?
And they “assume the position.” You know what I mean.
Hands close together…thumbs ready to go. You know…ready to TEXT! Tap-tap-tap…tap…tap…tap. Like little “thumb claws” on their smart phones. Socially adept at anonymous networking, but face-to-face can’t communicate with other people.
At our restaurant here in La Paz last week, I watched a family of 4 eating dinner. No one was talking to each other. But they were “communicating” to each other via text and e-mail even though they were all sitting next to each other!
TOTAL silence except for tap…tap…tap…to each other! “Howz yr tacos?” “Grt mom.” “Do U wnt mre salsa?” “I jst snt u a pic of me etng my brgr!”
Sitting right next to each other. I watched 90 minutes of this.
Pretty sad commentary about the new family of the 21st century.
But, there’s another side to this.
Sometimes, it’s amazing what a few days in Baja can do! A couple of days of fishing and some beach time and some pool and snorkel time. Being in a place where wi-fi isn’t automatic. And kids come out of that shell.
They run up to you…no, almost skip up to you…and can’t wait to tell you about how they caught a bigger fish than dad. And they are gushing about the whaleshark and dolphins they saw and how they tried fish tacos for the first time.
And, they’ve got a little color on their faces and their eyes are glowing again and there’s no sign of headsets wrapped around their necks and attached to iPods and smart phones. What? There’s no wi-fi on a panga?
Kids who no longer had a story to tell now have “adventures” they can’t wait to talk about. There’s almost a cool little “swagger” about them. Like each day they just survived the e-ticket rides!
Like you and I used to do. Things that you and I did commonplace is an “adventure” to these kids.
You and I walked to school. We rode our bikes through fields; down train tracks; and to the local beach, lake or public pool. Heaven forbid…some of us even rode on the handlebars…AND NO HELMETS!
Some of us even hitchhiked. We spent the night at friend’s houses. We stayed out late playing ball in the street under the street lamp. It was perfectly OK to eat cookies made by a neighbor or retrieve the ball from the neighbors yard. Our mom’s and dads knew the names and faces of the parents of our friends.
Camping out in the yard or going on a fishing trip wasn’t an exercise in logistics, insurance and security for a family. We didn’t sign release forms or have to check in our our personal GPS units. Mom’s two-fingered whistle from the front door meant “Get home now!”
I don’t think kids have adventures anymore. Whereas you and I got our jollies playing on a tire-swing and running through the sprinkler system, their “adrenaline rush” comes in how many zombies they killed on Play Station sitting in the living room.
A few days ago, I heard a 14-year-old boy (from Southern California) pleading to his dad to take his photo, “Look dad! Look dad, I’m sticking my feet in the ocean!” It was the same excitement you and I got riding our bikes with no hands or jumping off the big rock into the swimming hole. This was a southern California kid excited about simply putting his feet into the ocean!
I’m not saying that a trip to Baja is a cure-all.
But what old Baja Rats like you and I might take for granted like eating a fish taco, pulling on a fish; seeing some dolphin or (Lord help me) putting our toes into the ocean, could be the show-and-tell-adventure of a lifetime for some kid in your life.
As “civilized” as many of us have come to see Baja with air-conditioning; paved roads; McDonald’s and room service, it’s still the frontier. It’s still an exotic place for the unusual and the out-of-ordinary that can make a lifelong impression on some youngster who rarely looks up from their keyboard or lets go of the remote control.
Give ‘em a story to tell! Get them to look up and see the sunshine!
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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife, Jill, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter-international.com. They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is riplipboy@tailhunter-international.com or drop by the restaurant to say hi!
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That’s our story!
Jonathan
Jonathan Roldan’s
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Website: www.tailhunter-international.com
U.S. Office: 3319 White Cloud Drive, Suite A, Hacienda Hts. CA 91745
Mexico Office: 755 Paseo Obregon, La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico
Phones:
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“FINALLY READING BETWEEN THE LINES”
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Despite what many think, Mexico actually has one of the fastest growing tourism economies in the world as more folks are discovering Mexico as a great destination with Americans still comprising the majority of tourists with more than 24 million visitors expected this year.
“FINALLY READING BETWEEN THE LINES”
Originally Published the Week of March 20, 2013 in Western Outdoor News
It’s been an uphill battle.
Turn back the time machine about 2-3 seasons ago and it seemed that every other persons was asking me about the “violence in Mexico” or telling me they’d “Never go there again” or “I’d be in fear of my life!”
It seemed everyone had seen the news clips. Everyone had read the headlines. Everyone had a friend-of-neighbor-of-an-uncle-of-a-classmate who knew someone else who had been beaten, robbed, killed or eaten a bad taco.
Speaking at seminars and appearing at countless trade, travel, hunting and fishing shows over the years, it seemed the negativity was endless. Protest as I might…how could any of us who enjoy living and working in Mexico ever overcome the omnipotent power of the broadcast and print media?
We’re just little old us…mom and pop operations in Mexico…
How does one prove a negative? How do you prove something is NOT happening? How do we go up against CNN and FOX and the others and say, “Hey, thousands of tourists are NOT getting murdered!” “Hey, 200,000 Americans crossed the border today and NOTHING happened to them!”
Sigh…wring hands…shrug shoulders. Exhale. And hope.
But maybe things are changing. Lately, people specifically ask me if Baja is safe. Or is La Paz (where we live) or Cabo San Lucas safe. Things like that.
I tell them yes. Maybe show them some statistics and they’re fine with that. “I thought so,” they’ll usually say. Then, they move onto the good stuff like, “So, when’s the best time to come fishing?”
A few years ago, people would argue with me. Not so now.
Or, in the alternative, they affirm what we’ve been telling everyone.
They come out and pointedly tell me, that they’ve visited Cancun and Cozumel and Puerta Vallarta and Loreto and other tourist destinations and found them to be safer or at least as safe as being home. And enjoy travelling to Mexico. It’s a great value. The people are great. Love the food. Blah…blah…blah! Stuff we’ve always known, right?
Now, no one is saying Mexico doesn’t have a problem. Far from it. Mexico has some serious crime problems. But folks have been quick to point out that, “Hey, it’s not directed at tourists.”
“It’s in places we shouldn’t go anyway…like back alleys of Ciudad de Juarez!”
“Don’t do things you shouldn’t be doing and going to places you shouldn’t be going and you’ll be fine…like American cities. Every place has it’s bad areas. Don’t be an idiot. Stay out of bad areas!”
“I go to Mexico all the time. I feel safer there on the beach in San Carlos or Los Barriles than I do where I live in Phoenix and my car gets busted into all the time and several of my neighbors have been burglarized.”
“I’m tired of all the negativity. It’s in the news every time an American or tourist gets his wallet stolen in Mexico. How often does that happen in downtown New York and it never makes the news.”
It’s kind of refreshing in a strange way to have people trying to convince ME that it’s OK to be in Mexico. People are figuring it out on their own.
Unlike many tourist destinations, Mexico took 3 big strikes to it’s travel sector. First, was the economic downturn that seems to have hit the whole planet.
Second, of course, is the nervousness over violent crime.
Third, was the swine-flu scare. (Don’t get me started on that fiasco! Again… everyone knew a friend-of-a-friend-of-friend who had been stricken…sheesh).
But, Mexico’s on the rebound.
I’m not completely convinced yet that it’s due to an overall economic recovery for everyone. There’s still alot of bad stuff going on and we’re far from over. But, maybe folks are just adjusting to it all. Maybe they still know Mexico’s a good value and it’s close and yea…they’ve adjusted to the fact that it’s a pretty safe place to hang out with the bro’s and the family.
Indeed, statistics show that Mexico has one of the fastest growing tourist economies in the world. In excess of 24 million visitors take to Mexico yearly now. Americans make up the majority of Mexico’s tourism base as something like 4-8 million Americans visit annually. And suffer nothing more serious than a self-induced margarita hangover or a bad sunburn.
As a matter of fact, the fastest growing segment of Mexico’s tourism is coming from places like China, Russia, Columbia, Brazil and the Ukraine. And for years, having lived in Baja, the Italians, French and Japanese have been constant visitors as well.
This is all good news for Mexico and should be an assurance to those contemplating a trip south of the border where the most violent thing you encounter might be in the salsa you spoon into your tacos! Andale!
That’s our story!
Jonathan
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Jonathan Roldan has been writing the Baja Column in Western Outdoor News since 2004. Along with his wife and fishing buddy, Jilly, they own and run the Tailhunter International Fishing Fleet in La Paz, Baja, Mexico www.tailhunter-international.com. They also run their Tailhunter Restaurant Bar on the famous La Paz malecon waterfront. If you’d like to contact him directly, his e-mail is riplipboy@tailhunter-international.com or drop by the restaurant to say hi!
______________
Jonathan Roldan’s
Tailhunter International
TAILHUNTER FISHING FLEET #1 Rated on Trip Advisor
TAILHUNTER RESTAURANT BAR #1 Rated in La Paz on Trip Advisor
Now follow us on FACEBOOK TOO
Website: www.tailhunter-international.com
U.S. Office: 3319 White Cloud Drive, Suite A, Hacienda Hts. CA 91745
Mexico Office: 755 Paseo Obregon, La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico
Phones:
from USA : 626-638-3383
from Mexico: 044-612-14-17863
.
Tailhunter Weekly Fishing Report:
http://fishreport.jonathanroldan.com/
Tailhunter YouTube Videos:
http://www.youtube.com/user/pangapirate
“When your life finally flashes before your eyes, you will have only moments to regret all the things in life you never had the courage to try.”
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